- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
So, my so called bestie asked me if I wanted a shower. I told her that it would be nice, but I did not want anything huge (I was trying to be considerate of budget since she has two small children). So, my bestie contacted my Mom and sister, and the planning commenced. My bestie initiated the email chain, giving suggestions on how to split responsibility. Things got a little bigger than she anticipated, so she began to get nervous, and started to back down from her share of the responsibility.
My sister sent her an email asking her what was up, and my bestie responded in a very negative manner-she was horrible to my sister. She then proceeds to send me an email saying she is not coming to my shower, because my sister needs to “learn how to talk to people”. I contacted my sister to see what was up, and she made me aware of everything. She also forwarded me all of the emails, and none of them that she sent to my bestie were in any way negative.
I contacted my bestie, and she turned everything around so that she was the victim. This is typical behavior for her. I am so angry because I feel like she is sabotaging what is supposed to be a happy time. I’m getting married in 3 weeks, and I am so stressed-not even from the planning, but from the hurt and frustration that my bestie is causing. She is supposed to be a part of my ceremony, and I don’t think I want her to be now, for fear that she will ruin the day. What do you guys think bees? Any advice is truly appreciated!