(Closed) Bridal shower(s) dilemma!

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

My Maid/Matron of Honor is giving me a shower and is the only female in my wedding party or the only one on my side we are having a very small wedding! My church is giving me a shower where my fmil is hosting along with the church. My side is helping with my Maid/Matron of Honor shower so I wasnt having one on my fil side until yesterday when a 2nd cousin wanted to do it so they could be invited to one. So now I feel like 3 is waaaay to many and now my MOHs party is about to be out of hand!


If I were in you situation I would do the reg gifts at your aunts and a more naughty nighty party for your younger crawd!

Post # 4
3688 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Is there any way that the shower your aunts are throwing can be more for your family/friends while your Future Mother-In-Law can throw a shower for your FI’s side of the family?

Post # 6
847 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

@starz88962:  I think any shower over 1 is too much, tbh. Why not ask your Maid/Matron of Honor to organise a brunch where you guys play a few party games instead of a shower? I know it’s sad that she can’t make it, but you don’t need a second shower and I don’t think two showers will really work. Your Maid/Matron of Honor should host a fun get together for your girlfriends in lieu of a shower and accept that unfortunately, we can’t be there for everything.  

Post # 8
342 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You can have 2 showers, but people should be invited to one or the other, not both.

Or, you can just ask your Maid/Matron of Honor to throw an awesome bachelorette!

im having 2 showers as I think 50 people at one shower is too many and I won’t get to see and talk to everyone. But mine was a natural split. Family/friends and sorority.

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