(Closed) Bride being tacky or am I being hormonal?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 16
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Busy bee

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tinker44 :  I’d nope out of that Bridezilla shitshow so quick. I’d also tell her she’s an incredible asshole for how she treats her parents on the way out. 

Post # 17
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Worker bee

I would not be in this wedding or friendship any longer. I would also demand a refund from this jerk for the dress if you already have it. That isn’t tacky,  that’s horseshit.

Post # 18
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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tinker44 :  Not wasting my time reading all of the comments. Why are you friends with this person? You can’t be that desperate for friendship to let yourself be abused like this.

Post # 19
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Helper bee

People continue to act like this because nice people like you smile and talk about how horrifying it is but only behind their back. She is crazy rude and greedy. Ugh. You’re not being hormonal you’re being a decent person. 

Post # 20
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Sugar bee

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tinker44 :  *jaw drop*

since everyone else has addressed all the big thing you stated in your post, im going to pick one little detail

she was in your wedding but refused to take photos because she was jealous of your friends? Like she just stood off to the side in her bridesmaids dress? WTF did she even say? Did she tell you privately or did she tell all other girls too that she c ant be around because they are pretty? 

That is beyond petty! but pretty fitting with the everything else you decribed. 

Post # 21
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

well, your friend has now answered the burning question: what would Veruca Salt be like as a bride?

 

Post # 22
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Honey bee

I couldn’t get past the first paragraph.

Your friend isn’t tacky, she’s an @sshole.

Why are you friends with her?  You lie with dogs, you get fleas.

Post # 23
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

With friends like her, who needs enemies?!

With your high risk pregnancy, I would drop out of the wedding party and say goodbye to this friendship. Your health is your priority, not this shitty friend who treats everyone like crap. I have a feeling other people may drop out too.

Post # 24
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

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tinker44 :  I would seriously consider moving on from this ‘friendship’. It doesn’t sound like there is mutual respect, or like you’re getting anything out of the relationship.

Good luck with your pregancy – I hope you have a smooth path from here on!

Post # 25
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

I didn’t even manage to finish reading all of your post. If ever there was a bitch in need of ghosting, this would be the one. Drop out of the wedding, dump her, delete her number, if you come across her in the streets, RUN. She is horrid.

Post # 26
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Why are you friends with this person? 

Post # 27
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

She’s a terrible human being. I’d drop out and ditch the friendship. Trust me, you will miss nothing by removing her from your life. She’s a misery beacon. 

Post # 28
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609 posts
Busy bee

Not just rude, your “friend” is a straight up JERK. There are so many red flags in your post I can’t even believe you consider her a friend! She sounds completely awful! 

Post # 29
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Omni Bedford Springs Resort

Well, she sounds fun.  Honestly, I’d tell her to f**k right off and be done with it.  You don’t need shit people like this in your life.

 

I give the marriage a year.

Post # 30
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Your friend is disgusting. You need to take her out of your life. End of story.

 

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