(Closed) Bride *maybe* wants me to get a new BM dress for the wedding

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5183 posts
Bee Keeper

Would it be possible to ask the other girls to get a purplish hue to match yours? That way, you are not the only purple? As for shoes and buying another dress.. if I am not getting any answers, I like to over save.. so I would say just save 200 for dress and 100 for shoes. Either way, this gives you a difinitive budget to stay within so you are not going cray. Are you MOH? Maybe you and the other girls could decide on 1 shoe that you could all buy. mismatches dressed and the same shoe always ties in a Bridesmaid or Best Man look to me! You could even possibly keep your dress, have the other girls get purplish hues and wear the same shoe (and same color)

Post # 5
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5183 posts
Bee Keeper

@Heartly:  dont worry, I really have no patience either! And Im OK with it haha. Could you guys take it upon yourselves to pick a shoe? How far away is your wedding? maybe you could just give a couple option and take a vote on which shoe you all like the best!  What are her wedding colors?

Post # 7
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1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

She needs to make up her mind.  If you or anyone else has already purchased a dress and she wants you to wear a different one, and you cannot get a refund for that dress or exchange it for the one she wants, she should get the new dress.  Ditto for shoes.

Post # 8
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46402 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m with      @futuremrsfitz18:  She told you what color range she wanted the dresses. You bought a dress that was within her expectations. If she has changed her mind- too bad, so sad. If she really wants another dress, she can pay for it. Ditto with shoes for those who have already purchased them.

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