(Closed) Bride needs to slow down

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 16
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484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

So I feel like you have two options:

1. Sit her down and try to thoughtfully point out some of the problems with her current plan.

2. Stay mum and keep us updated on how the Bridesmaid or Best Man demotions turn out.

I selfishly advocate for #2. (But no, really, it’s not inappropriate to do #1.) 

Post # 18
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee

mo711:  All good, sometimes it’s easy to glaze over WHY someone is doing what they’re doing, so it’s good you understand. You’re totally right though, she at least needs to pin down a definite bridal party, then she can maybe start looking at dresses she likes – without actually committing to anything right now! 

Post # 19
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540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

You should get a wedding planning timeline from somewhere. Sit down with her & have her look at it. Say things like “do you think xyz is getting done too early?” that’ll open the conversation & you can tell her your opinion.

Post # 20
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416 posts
Helper bee

If she is your close friend, be honest with her. A reasonable person will be able to tell that you aren’t trying to squash her happiness; you are trying to provide the perspective of a guest of bridal party — both of which she seems to need. 

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