(Closed) Bride thinks that she get a whole year (not just one day)

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5473 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Eughhhh, why does this girl even have friends?

Post # 4
2417 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Well, she definetly sounds like your stereotypical spoiled rich girl. She gets one day. Not the whole year. I’m sorry that all the other girls are not going to come to your wedding because she decided to have her bachlerette party 7 months before her wedding.

Seriously though, why are you friends with this girl?

Post # 5
2942 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wow, just wow… I couldn’t even deal.   If J asked me to be in her wedding, and then laid all those demands down, I would flip.

Post # 6
2211 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Lord.  It’s like Mean Girls:  Bridal Edition!

Maybe you should tell her to get over herself…

Post # 7
956 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@MissMaya:  That sucks. I’m sorry she is being a bitch.

Post # 8
1108 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow, that is ridiculous!  Sorry if this is harsh, but I would not be friends with someone anymore who acted like this.  As for the girls who apparently can’t come to your wedding anymore, I would talk to them all one on one to determine if that is actually the case.  Seriously, I have never encountered someone like that, and hope I never do.

Post # 10
310 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Wow, she sure sounds selfish, and ridiculous. Someone needs a reality check lol. Get that venting out girl, we sympathize with you! Unfortunately brides like that make people worry and think all brides turn into Bridezillas.

Post # 11
6036 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2019 - City, State

@MissMaya:  Isn’t it up the BMs to plan the bachelorette party? why is she planning her own party? not to mention that she isn’t the one agreeing to all of this, her bm’s are. They are aware of your wedding and since your save the dates went out and they knew about your wedding it’s up to them to decide how to prioritize their time and money. She doesn’t sound like a very pleasant person but she isn’t holding a gun to anyone’s head. I would be really disappointed in my other friends as well for going along with all of this and fueling her fire.

Plus, a destination wedding is expensive and if she’s planning a wedding of her own, it really isn’t your place to decide if she *should* be able to come or not. Do I think it’s crappy of her to not make much of an effort (it seems)? yes, for sure. But I think that it sounds like you don’t really like her much to begin with based on your comments about her. So I wouldn’t be too disappointed that she wasn’t coming.

 As for your other friends, you have to kind of just realize that those that want to be there will be there and anyone else is just missing out on sharing your day. I think you’re assuming a lot and taking this more personally than it needs to be taken.

Post # 13
47458 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

What are you getting out of this relationship? There must be a reason you are maintaining this so called friendship.


Post # 15
2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I used to be friends with someone who, as soon as the ring was on her finger, it became all about her times infinity (she was already like that anyway).  She must have had at least 5 engagement parties, 2-3 showers, etc.  And I unfriended her a year after the engagement because I literally could not stand her anymore. 

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