(Closed) Bride to be and MOH – not cool

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8 posts
  • Wedding: May 2011

I noticed no one responded so i hope you aren’t feeling completely hopeless.  Just remember that YOUR day is most important and hopefully everyone near you will understand if you have to prioritize and they don’t agree with your decisions.  Not sure where the snarky girl fits in, but, you do NOT have to put up with that whether it’s from a bridge, mother-to-be, Maid/Matron of Honor, or anyone else!  Stand up for yourself when you can and take frequent time outs and breathers.  Take time for just yourself and make 1 decision for your wedding or reception and be happy with that accomplishment.  Good luck.  Wish I could have had your wedding date.  I love the number 8!

Post # 4
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Wow, girlie!! That is a lot of crap going on! So sorry to hear that. I definitely recommend both: yoga and a VERY stiff drink. Although you might have done both already. It sucks having so much negativity in your life at such a time. So I agree, focus on you. Do the best you can with the other situations, but refuse to their stress/rudeness and inconsiderate natures influence you. Try to focus instead on YOU and YOUR soon-to-be-hubby. You both are the most important right now. Remember that. Otherwise 10 years down the line you will regret not taking some time to focus on yourself. Good luck!!!

Post # 5
824 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011 - The Tribute Golf Club

That is a lot of big moments in a short amount of time!  Hopefully things get better with the Maid/Matron of Honor role (and rude BMs), but like others said, you have to find the time for yourself and be excited about your big day 🙂

Post # 6
432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I have 0 advice but wanted to offer a hug and remind you that 5 years from now the drama will be gone and you’ll have a wonderful husband!

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