(Closed) Bride too Tired (bachelorette party concern)

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
989 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Just be up front with her about your concerns and ask her what she would want you all to do in that case.  She might tell you to go out without her, or she may relent and decide to have a girls night in.

I attended a bachelorette in New Orleans 4 years ago and the bride just was not into the clubbing.  One night we had a sleepover back at the hotel per her request, but the next night she told us to go out and enjoy ourselves without her.  We got to have our party time and still do what the bride wanted.

Post # 4
1252 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’d probably bring along those little bottles of 5 Hour Energy and have everyone drink it like a shot before or after dinner ;-).

Post # 5
2783 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I have the same problem: I zonk right out. Just watch her drinking….make sure she has some water in between…other than that, a few red bulls should help 🙂

Post # 6
1402 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’m with the PPs on the caffeine train. 

Post # 7
13292 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I have the same problem, and after going to vineyards, I’d have no interest in going clubbing.  I’d tell her up front that you’re concerned that she always falls asleep after the vineyards and it wouldn’t be much fun if the bride were sleeping while everyone else went partying!

Post # 8
131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

If you finished wineries by 3 or 4, she could nap before dinner… also I would just make sure that wherever you do dinner doesn’t have super heavy food.

Post # 9
1274 posts
Bumble bee

I agree with laurelina, make sure the winery tours finish by late afternoon so she has time to go back to the hotel and nap before dinner out. Keep the redbull handy too! 

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