Bride wants matching tattoos for Bachelorette

posted 2 months ago in Parties
Post # 31
83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2029

That would be a huge no for me.  Tattoos are personal for people who get them and it would be selfish to demand someone get a tattoo all about them.  She sounds really selfish.  Do not give into her demands.

Post # 32
11128 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

None of it would be happening. The tattoo, attending a destination bachelorette, or planning a party in honor of someone at their own request one time let alone two. 

Post # 33
411 posts
Helper bee

Tell her absolutely not. Oh and you have the perfect idea for her ink: 

BRIDEZILLA tattooed across her forehead. 

Post # 34
9319 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - A castle

TheSanguineRose :  I literally lol’d at this. Thank you for that!!

Post # 36
188 posts
Blushing bee

I suggest you reply with: “[string of laughing-until-I-cry emojis]  That is the most insane thing I’ve ever heard!  Are you filming for a Bridezillas reality show????  Haha, friend, I think I’m going to have to pass on that one. laughing

Treat it like of course she was being intentionally absurd.  Because, really, WHO DOES THAT?

Post # 37
5828 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

I would have replied to this earlier, but it was so ridiculous I couldn’t stop laughing. I, too, would treat this request/demand like it was intended to be as ridiculous as it actually is and laugh. Tell her you will be happy to accompany her while she gets some ink, but laugh about the part where she thinks you willl. If she has the gall to say it again or try to insist, I would flat-out say, “Oh, you can’t be serious! That’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard! I wouldn’t get a permanent body modification for MY wedding, let alone YOURS!”

Post # 38
2545 posts
Sugar bee

weddingmaven :  Amen. People need to start saying no to more of these bloated, overblown bridal “requirements”. I get the feeling that for some people the marriage itself is an afterthought; at it heart it’s really just a prolonged celebration of self.

Post # 39
336 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019 - City, State

butternutter :  I’m just sitting here trying to figure out what the T-word might be. 
T-Rex? Torture chamber? Trollop? Toothless? Trick turner? *rump ? (no…even for a joke i cannot write that name)

or the worst word in my world: tired old trope? 

Post # 40
15 posts
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Waygetter Electronics

That is a little too permanent a request! 😮  I like tattoos, and I have to think long and hard about exactly what I want before I get one.  I cannot imagine an impromptu tattoo from a hen party.


Post # 41
1572 posts
Bumble bee

You should say, “FACE tattoos or NO DEAL.”  Bam!

Post # 42
549 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2007 - City, State

TheSanguineRose :  who has time to create fake posts with ridiculous ideas? I hardly have time to occasionally comment on posts that are real…


I will say I look to see how many posts the person has made before I consider them to be fake. 

Post # 43
758 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

sf618b :  You’d be surprised.   There are people out there with a lot of time on their hands.  This whole post seems fake.  

Post # 44
4287 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Is anyone else over all these “first posters” recently?

Post # 45
13414 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’d laugh in her face.

This is absurd.  Also, a bride doesn’t dictate the bachelorette, so if you guys didn’t want to do the Nashville trip or host a second local party, you should have put your foot down.  This girl seems like a witch.

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