(Closed) bridemaid and i don’t agree

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: stay or go

    let her get the dress in red in black like she wanted

    should choose a dress that the bride would like her to wear

  • Post # 17
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    @csperry2

    Post # 18
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    Busy Beekeeper

    She’s 15, your paying for it, why is this even a discussion? She wears what you want.

    Post # 20
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Give her 3 dresses to choose from. I think doing that would be more than generous. She’s seriously being difficult. The one time I was a bridesmaid (for my sister) I wore whatever I was told to put on, because it fit her vision of what we should wear.

    Post # 22
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I honestly don’t think this is actually as age appropriate as the other dress, but hopefully she will just wear it and smile.

    Post # 23
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    It seems to me that both dresses are tight until they hit the thigh, with the purple one going lower on the thigh (more of a mermaid I guess?) before it flares out. They both seem to be quite tight and “poppy outty” as far as boobs and butt are concerned. The sweetheart is going to draw more attention to the bust, too.

    Post # 24
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    Busy Beekeeper

    I’m confused you feel the other dress is more popping out than THIS?

    Post # 25
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    Sugar bee

    The new dress is just as tight in the bust.  I also think it is a little older in style. 

    A previous poster suggested picking a few dresses and then letting her pick from those.  I think that is a great idea.  15 year olds are just getting to exert their control over what they wear.  I wouldn’t make a big fuss over it.

    Relationships are more important then outfits.

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