- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2018
She’s 15, your paying for it, why is this even a discussion? She wears what you want.
so after everyopnes advise ,,, i have decided she is not getting that dress,,,, i feel as a bride that i should love the maid of honour dress and i don’t love this dress so i have ordered this dress,,,what do you guys think?
Give her 3 dresses to choose from. I think doing that would be more than generous. She’s seriously being difficult. The one time I was a bridesmaid (for my sister) I wore whatever I was told to put on, because it fit her vision of what we should wear.
I honestly don’t think this is actually as age appropriate as the other dress, but hopefully she will just wear it and smile.
It seems to me that both dresses are tight until they hit the thigh, with the purple one going lower on the thigh (more of a mermaid I guess?) before it flares out. They both seem to be quite tight and “poppy outty” as far as boobs and butt are concerned. The sweetheart is going to draw more attention to the bust, too.
I’m confused you feel the other dress is more popping out than THIS?
The new dress is just as tight in the bust. I also think it is a little older in style.
A previous poster suggested picking a few dresses and then letting her pick from those. I think that is a great idea. 15 year olds are just getting to exert their control over what they wear. I wouldn’t make a big fuss over it.
Relationships are more important then outfits.
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