(Closed) Brides over 30: What kind of bachelorette party (if any)?

posted 7 years ago in 30 Something
  • poll: What kind of bachelorette party are you having/did you have?
    None (didn't want one) : (21 votes)
    14 %
    None (wanted to have one, but it didn't happen) : (3 votes)
    2 %
    Low-key (i.e. nice dinner, spa night, etc.) : (66 votes)
    44 %
    "Educational"... wink, wink (wine tasting, pole dancing lessons, "Sips n' Strokes") : (11 votes)
    7 %
    Wild, but not tooooo crazy (standard clubbing, bar-hopping) : (42 votes)
    28 %
    Drunkstravaganza (strippers! body shots! stories we can't repeat!) : (7 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    5984 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1999

    We went to the wineries for the day!  It was just perfect for me and my girls! 

    Post # 4
    1805 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I picked “none, didn’t want one” but it was also kind of the second choice, because I imagine if my friends had SUGGESTED something I would have enjoyed it.  I mean, Fiance and I have been together 8 years.  To go out for one last “single” night would have seemed odd, but to have a special night to spend with my friends would have been nice.  Sadly it wasn’t offered/brought up.


    Post # 5
    3520 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Maid/Matron of Honor is planning a spa day followed by a nice dinner, then probably a sleepover with lots of chick flicks.

    Post # 7
    686 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We are just going for lunch and maybe getting pedicures afterward.  I’m 27 and feel like I’m over the whole party thing….   I would much rather go have good conversation and laughs with my closest girls, then go out get sloshed, look at sweaty men dancing (ewww) and not remember my party the next day.  : )

    Post # 8
    658 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    I already told my friends that I wanna go bowling. Good old fun like when we were young. Plus, noone has a chance of drinking and driving. That is important to me.

    Post # 9
    14656 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I want a low key, just dinner and a few drinks…. but my friend has warned me that I should not drive out and to “be prepared”.  eeeek!

    Post # 11
    736 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    We are planning a girls weekend in Florida.

    Post # 12
    17 posts

    I don’t think I am having one. 2 of  my Bridesmaid or Best Man live in Out of Town, My Maid/Matron of Honor lives Out of Town, and the other 3 are either too young to plan anything or just non existant in any planning as it is! So probably won’t have one!

    Post # 13
    506 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had 2 (both small groups of ladies) one in Vegas and one in Palm Springs, both had 1 1/2 days of relaxing and one night of going out.  In Vegas we went to a comedy club and I had a “LIST” of things to check off and in Palm Springs we went to a restaurant and then went back and got dressed for dancing.club.  They both were fun and I’m glad we did them. 

    Post # 14
    138 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    Going Low-Key. FH and I discussed this early on, when we were still in the bf/gf stage, and decided to have a laid back get together with friends, have an awesome dinner, have some great drinks, maybe play some pool and head home feeling awesome. Strippers and clubs just don’t do it for us and neither do hangovers.

    Post # 15
    2192 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I am going to one in two weeks where I know there will be a stripper there.  The bride is 28.

    Back in the day I would be running to the bank to get singles.  Now I am like ew.  Back in the day I would be wasted on Mad Dog or Apple Pucker.  Now I like a nice dry martini.  Back in the day the girls and I had to SCRAPE the bottom of the couch for money to pay for stripper, limo, drinks, etc.  Now we can afford all that and more.  So we will be spending the day at the spa and go out to a very nice dinner.  And maybe some stripper pole classes for giggles. 🙂

    Post # 16
    7295 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    mine was standard clubbing. i am away on internship for a year, so my BMs couldnt do one for me and i always said i didnt want a typical crazy bachelorette, but my coworkers were super nice and wanted to do something. i said i like dinner and dancing, so we did that, but then they bought some accessories and forced me to wear it! (headpiece with veil, sash, flashing button!). i never wanted the accessories and extra attention, but it turned out to be fun!  and everyone kept buying me shots, so i ended up puking in the bathroom – something i probably havent done since my early to mid-20s!

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