(Closed) Bride's post on FB…..How would YOU react?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: How would YOU react?

    Say nothing and respond when you hear back from your boss

    Decline even if you do get the day off

    Don't return the RSVP at all

    Other (explain)

    YAY POLLS! I only clicked your thread because of the poll. Nothing to add :)

  • Post # 92
    Member
    2187 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I would have to post something like “SOME of us hae to make special arrangements before responding, can’t wait to party with you!”.

     

    But I’m like that.

    Post # 93
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    164 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Give her the benefit of the doubt. As a bride who felt like saying something along those lines to my guests, I understand. It probably wasn’t directed at you but rather people she knows are just being inconsiderate by not bothering to get the rsvp back.

    Post # 94
    Member
    108 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    About 2 weeks before my RSVPs were due, I posted a message just reminding people of the due date, and telling them that if I knew there were going to be there (like my brother and a few other people) that I would mark them down for vegetarian if the due date passed!  I wanted to remind people but be funny about it, but of course they had until the due date.

    LOL…. I got a mad rush of RSVPs after that.  😀

    Now it’s a day past the due date and I’m only missing two RSVPs.  But since we’re having 50 people there (including the wedding party) two makes a big difference with planning.

    I might have to threaten them with veggies again…

    Post # 95
    Member
    1638 posts
    Bumble bee

    That’s Rude. It is the Bride and Groom’s duty to CALL all of the guests that haven’t RSVP’d to get a response. Not post on facebook that if you haven’t rsvp’d by the deadline don’t bother coming. People are so rude and incosiderate these days!

    Post # 96
    Member
    2121 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    oh you should 100% wait for RSVP date to pass. i nearly went mad when 50% people hadnt responded one month after the deadline had passed…but thats a different issue!!

    Post # 97
    Member
    1486 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I wouldn’t be annoyed, that looks like a reminder to me. She’s trying to remind people before the deadline because it’s a hard deadline, perhaps. I don’t think it sounds bitchy at all.

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