(Closed) Brides under 25… When do you want to start having kids?

posted 10 years ago in 20 Something
  • poll: What age do you want to be when you start having children?






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  • Post # 3
    1583 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Ill be 24 in a couple weeks and DH is 26. We want to wait about 5 years. So I will be 29 and he will be 31. We just have a lot we want to do. We want to pay down some student loans, There is a lot I want to do with the house. I just don’t have that urge to be a parent yet

    Post # 4
    829 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    We’re getting married when I’m 23, he is 25.

    We’ve talked about 2 years to have a baby, so I’ll be 25 or 26, he will be 27 or 28. This is just our speculation though, we’ll see when it actually happens. I definitely want to have some childless married time together. There’s no rush for us 🙂

    Post # 5
    1871 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I’m 21, and Fiance Is 26. We’re hoping to have a child by the time he’s 30.

    Post # 6
    1388 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I’m 21 and Fiance is also 26. We’ll be 22 and 27, respectively when we’re married.

    Neither of us want kids. We want to be “DINK’s” (Double Income No Kids)

    Post # 7
    852 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    My FH was quite seriously talking about having a baby as soon as we were engaged as “I would have had the baby by the wedding” lol.

    But well pretty much start “trying” or at least stop attempts to prevent from the honeymoon (I’ll be 24 and hell be 25) as sad as it is my partners family has a long history of the men passing young (ie before they are 55-60) so he wants to be around for as long aspossible for his kids as he knows what it was like to loose his dad when he was only 19.

    Post # 8
    1835 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    I voted 24-26 because we want to deliver by 25yrs+364days IF we decide to have children. (We’ll be 22 when we get married, so it gives us about three years to decide together whether to be CBC or to conceive.)

    I would consider adoption up to 30-ish, though.

    Post # 9
    1733 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Right now we are CBC. IF we change our minds I cannot imagine having children until I am at least 30. 

    Post # 10
    377 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I am 24, Fiance is 28 …And we will start trying within a year after after marrying( June,2012). 

    Post # 11
    1038 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I am 25 and Fiance and I start to try next year after the wedding when we’re 26 (almost 27)

    Post # 12
    3686 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2009

    We got married at 23, had our first at 25, and just had our second at 26 (27 in a couple weeks).  🙂  

    Post # 13
    2674 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m 21 hes 24, we will be 23 and 25 when we get married. I will be starting a 3 or 4 year long graduate program the month after we get married. We will probably have kids my last year of school or in the next few years after that. So I will be 26-29 when we start. We want 2 kids.

    Post # 14
    3631 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    We want to start trying by like 25. Hopefully we will have a house by then and good jobs.

    Post # 15
    3274 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    I’d guesstimate 27-29.  But probably no later than 28, SO is almost 12 years older and I’m pretty sure he wants kids before he’s 40.

    Post # 16
    1851 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    We aren’t sure if we’ll have children. It’s been put on the back burner for 5 years. We’re both 23, hoping to be married at 24/25 and it’s not financially feasible where we’ll be moving to have children early in our marriage.

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