(Closed) Brides under 25… When do you want to start having kids?

posted 10 years ago in 20 Something
  • poll: What age do you want to be when you start having children?

    18-20

    21-23

    24-26

    27-29

    30+

    No kids for us! We're childfree by choice

    We want children, but we're not sure when yet

    We haven't decided whether or not we want children

  • Post # 77
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I’m 25 and the Fiance is 28, 
    We’ve decided to casually start trying when he’s 30… So plenty of time yet *Gulp*  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 78
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    I’ll be 23 and Fiance 22 when we marry..Fiance wants to wait till we’re 30 but I’d like to be done with having kids by the time I’m 30! And probably want two. So we’ll see what happens, but I think somwhere between 26-29 to pop two kids out would be good ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 79
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    1136 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We’re happily CBC. ๐Ÿ™‚ We enjoy free time, extra money, and our family of two. Children would change our lives, and we don’t feel the change would be positive for us. 

    Post # 80
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    807 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Fiance and I are CBC, we don’t have any grand plans to travel or anything like that we just don’t like children so we aren’t ever going to have any.

    Post # 81
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    349 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    I will be 22 and he will be 25 when we get married this December.  We actually hope to have kids starting next year but we are more of the “If it happens” type to reduce the stress ๐Ÿ™‚ 

    Post # 82
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    My Fiance and I are 21, and when we get married he’ll be 22 and I’ll be just shy of 22. He needs to go to grad school, so ideally we wouldn’t start trying until I was 25/26 and he was 26/27. Of course that is all subject to be pushed back depending on our financial situation at the time.

    Post # 83
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    226 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I’ll be turning 21 in august and getting married in november. As we have no reason to use family planning as of now, we plan on being open to God’s plan for our family as soon as we are married!

    Post # 84
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    185 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m nearly 22 and he’s nearly 21, not planning on having kids ’til we’re 30. We’re both pretty career focused – it’s important for us to be able to provide for a child before we have one, and right now we’re quite happy providing for ourselves, living life and having eachother

    Post # 85
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    87 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I’m 21 (soon to be 22), he’s 26. I’d like one now, so I’m aiming for 22 when I give birth…

    Post # 86
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    2453 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    married at 23, he is 25. no plans at all.

    Post # 87
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    10 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m 20, he’s 27. We aren’t getting married til May of next year. I want to want a little bit to give us some “us time” as a married couple before kids. I would like to have a kid around 23ish though. I know that seems pretty young, but the Marine Corps has already taken a toll on my body. I still want to be able to run around and play with my kids.

    Post # 88
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    381 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I am 22 now and already have a beautiful little boy from my first marriage. But our plan is to start TTC a few months after the wedding(I will be 23 and he will be 27) so we will actually give birth about a year after the wedding. I like being young enough to really play with my kids and I have some reproductive issues so I would like to have children before I don’t have that option anymore(hence why I had my first so young)

    Post # 89
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    369 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2015

    28-30 so I can be out of school and (hopefully) established in a good job.

    ETA: I’m 23, he’s 24.

    Post # 90
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    Wannabee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We’re both 21 right now and will be 22 when we get married. Our current idea is to begin trying when we’re 26, but I would like to try a year or two sooner than that. It would really depend on our financial situation and, of course, if it’s God’s will for us to have children then! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 91
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    8291 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I will be 21 in a few months & my husband will be 23 shortly after. We don’t want to start trying for at least 5 years! When 5 years time comes, we will be married for 7 years & together a total of 11 years. Its just a good time frame for us. We want to own our house (we rent right now.) & We want to do alot more traveling. I just went to the beach for the first time ever this month! lol So we have a few more places on our bucket list before TTC happens!

    That will put me at age 26 & my husband at the age of 28.

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