- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
I realize why I try not to post things… it takes me forever to write. I talk a lot, and that obviously comes out in my writing. I write this whole long thing (like I’m doing now) that has nothing to do with the question I need to ask. Just a lot of details that may help you understand better, but definitely not necessary.
So shut up manders and ask…. 1 of the 2 BM’s I have first assumed she was going to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.. (I can kind of understand that). Now she is assuming she can bring her boyfriend (I can kinda see that too).
But we are having a Destination Wedding (they are all coming here to Kauai).. we already sent out too many invitations.. i have never even met her boyfriend… i don’t like him. they have only been together maybe 8 months.. since then, they have broken up already one time for a week.. maybe a couple hours another day.. texts in his phone, he’s not honest, earring in his car, stayed at some girls house late to “watch a movie” then they both called out of work the next day (they work together).. she is moving in to her parents old house, and he is moving in with her? WTF
She doesn’t trust him what-so-ever, and has already said she mainly lives with him to see what he does!!
I’m pretty sure a big part of wanting to bring him, is so she knows what he is doing. None of our other friends are bringing dates, why can’t she come alone? And why didn’t she ask? She just told me! I haven’t said anything yet about her not bringing him.. my other friend and I just told her it’s a long time away, see what happens. I give her hints about too many people.. nothing…
Do you think it’s too late to tell her no? I’m afraid she will get mad or tell me she’s not going to come or something. What could I say to her that’s not being a bitch?