Post # 1
Im getting married in Oct 2011 and I have a bridesmaid who keeps giving me every excuse in the book why she would go and pay for her dress so we can order them. Im worried that they will go discontinued or another price increase. She keeps telling me she is waiting for her tax return but I dont believe it. Im afraid she wont be able to afford anything else for the wedding, so how do i ask her to step down? Maybe I could find another job for her in my wedding so she still feels a part of it.
Post # 3
It seems reasonable to me that she’s waiting for her tax return. Why don’t you believe her? Also, have you had a serious discussion with her about whether she can afford the dress? Maybe you could help out a little or something. I wouldn’t ask her to step down without knowing more about what’s going on.
Post # 4
I have talked her her many of times and every time I get excuse after excuse why she doesnt have the money. I would offer to pay for the dress but since Im paying for my own wedding (without help from family) money is kinda tight.