(Closed) Bridesmaid (aka best friend) dating my bro-in-law (aka Best Man)

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
46590 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think you are bent out of shape over nothing. They are both adults. They are not related. They are each able to decide who they want to date.


Post # 4
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

am i the only one that laughed outloud?  they are adults, you cant dictate who they see and if you feel like its your sister dating your brother then thats your issue to deal with. i suggest step away and let them make their own choices – for your concerns, i do hope they keep it together for at least another 55 days at least 

Post # 6
2584 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@julies1949: Agreed. She might feel like your sister, but she’s not. I take it this is FBIL? Because he could date your actual blood relative sister and still be fine, they still wouldn’t be related.

Not sure what all the dishonesty stuff is about but you shouldn’t be fighting with your Fiance about someone else’s relationship…

Post # 7
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@alyssabol: I don’t know what you mean by the dishonesty stuff and why you can’t talk to anyone about it, for your sake I just hope there’s no drama at the wedding.

Beyond that there’s really nothing you can do. Focus on what’s important, you’re about to be someone’s wife 🙂

Post # 8
715 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I think you should have a talk with your best friend. Sit down with her and let her know that you are worried (said dishonesty) and that you hope she won’t let this budding relationship affect your friendship, come between you and you Future Brother-In-Law, or Fiance and Future Brother-In-Law, or that should this not work out, she will not let it have any negative affect on your wedding….ask Fiance to do the same thing with Future Brother-In-Law. I understand your feelings, and like PPs have said you cannot say who they can date and who they can’t but you can express your worry to your friend about your friend, and that you are worried it won’t work out and she could get hurt….(i.e. the reason for the previous bridesmaid leaving)…

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