(Closed) Bridesmaid Angry Email

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1734 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You’re not a bad friend — I suspect she’s just in a bad, hurting place right now and lashing out. Turn the other cheek if at all possible — be honest and say that you tend to process things alone, but that you should have thought that she might want to talk about it. Go from there. Beyond *that*…then she’s just starting drama!

Post # 4
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786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

She’s probably just feeling overly emotional and sensitive about everything right now and misdirected her emotion on to you. I bet she truly doesn’t feel that way, but maybe just talk to her and tell her you’re so sorry and you love her, but you just wanted to give her space and not bother her. You figured she didn’t want to talk about it all week. Just reassure her that you’re there for her. It sucks that she is taking out her sadness on you, but she’s clearly dealing with something upsetting 🙁

Post # 6
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

I totally wouldn’t say you were a bad friend but if she’s close enough to be a bridesmaid then you should probably know her well enough to know whether you should have called her or not. Just because you wouldn’t want to talk about it doesn’t mean she wouldn’t.

Just tell her you were trying to give her some space and that you are very sorry. Let her know you’ll try to check in with her more often and reasure her that you haven’t forgotten about her. You don’t want her to feel like she’s not important anymore so make the effort to call and ask how things happened and invite her out to spend some time with just you.

Post # 7
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i dont think you intentionally was a bad friend but it takes almost no time to text someone a hi, thinking of you

if this was me i would simply apologize and hopefully move on – we all have moments we wish we did things differently, sometimes life gets in the way

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