(Closed) Bridesmaid asks for her FI to be in wedding party!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@BetterSherm:  Believe me laff it off. You will need a lot of humor as your planning continues.

CONGRATS! On your engagement and upcoming wedding.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That’s so strange! I would never think to ask that! 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That was a crazy request! I would never assume anyone would want my Fiance in their bridal party unless they were siblings or BFF’s of his.

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Definitely a strange request.  Laugh it off and move on!

Post # 7
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Worker bee

Yeah, how tacky of her.  Just no.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@BetterSherm:  whoaaa that Bridesmaid or Best Man is SUPER selfish!  Isn’t she planning her own wedding and THEREFORE shouldn’t she already know a little bridal party etiquette?

Very silly/tacky/unreal request… she will/should feel silly when she thinks about it after.

Don’t worry bout it! She should know your bridal party really has no place for him…

Congrats & good luck!!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Ha! It’s funny because just the other day I was looking through a friend’s wedding album, and she was pointing out that one of her BMs was only in the wedding party because she was engaged to the best man and he had asked for her to be in the Wedding Party … they later broke up, and now my friend has all these pictures with some random girl she doesn’t know or like with all her lifelong BFFs in her wedding party. Yikes. She should have taken a lesson from you and JUST SAID NO!

Who would even WANT to be in a wedding party if you’re not close with the bride or groom? That’s so weird.

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