(Closed) bridesmaid attention whore!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’d just say sorry, it’s gotta be knee-length, rules are rules! It’s your wedding day and if she can’t be on board with what you want then that’s not a very good friend imho!

Post # 5
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728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

LOL very uncool for her to put you in that situation…. she helped make the rules! she should not wear that dress! tell her to get it shortened?

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You’re sort of beating around the bush with her and not being direct.  Don’t say things like “you’ll stand out” or “you won’t be comfortable”.  It’s time to say “no, we agreed on knee length.  Everyone else is wearing knee length.  No negotiating now.”  If you don’t stand your ground, she’ll just keep at it until you don’t feel like fighting it anymore.  She might throw a fit or a temper tantrum, but she’ll get over it.

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