(Closed) Bridesmaid behaving badly

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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7682 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Longtimewait21:  Wow!  So sorry your “friend” treated you like that.  I hope this post has helped you to vent and put that all behind you.  Enjoy your time with your new hubby! Congratulations!

Post # 3
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1042 posts
Bumble bee

Wait…..  Did she recite verbatim that house wife link???please tell me no. 

Post # 5
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Longtimewait21:  Holy shit. Rant on. 100% justified and sounds like you handled this all with grace. I think at the point of her taking the cash out I would have went off and told her to get the **** out. It’s not about the money but that was a very tasteless thing to do on her part. I’m sorry you had to go through all this I don’t blame you at all for being so upset

Post # 7
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1042 posts
Bumble bee

Im so so sorry. Your guests must have been mortified. everything she did was awful, but I can imagine sitting through that speech. Or her ignorance to your hairdresser. Or taking the money out of your envelope to pay for her hair. wow. 

 

Post # 7
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928 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Wow, she sounds awful! I can’t believe the shit she pulled! I think you’ll be better off without her in your life. 

Post # 9
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8686 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

Stories like this I always wish I could hear the other person’s side. I want to know what someone is thinking before they do a bunch of ridiculous things!

Post # 11
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - NH

Even if I had a huge fallout with a friend, I would never try to make their wedding day miserable.  I think she knew what she was doing and just didn’t care at all.  You’re better off without her.

Post # 13
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1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Whaat. No.  How terrible, I am so sorry (and embarrassed) for you, I can’t even imagine how obnoxious that would have been.  

Post # 14
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2014 posts
Buzzing bee

So she didn’t think to tell you she couldn’t afford to pay for the hair and makeup until AFTER she had it done? What a b*tch. She knew by then that it’s too late and SOMEONE would end up having to pay for it even if she refused to. Plus telling your grandma she’s saving up for a boob job all the while crying broke to you? Classy!! Honestly at that point I would have told her to get her husband and get the f*ck out of the building and to not bother showing up for the wedding at all.

I know you said you wish you’d had the courage to tell her to piss off, and what’s done is done, but if she pulled similar things leading up to the wedding I can’t believe you actually let her attend let alone be your MOH!!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Wow! She crossed sooo many lines!!! I’m so sorry she was such a douchecanoe during your wedding! I would probably just cut her our of my life…. Unforgivable!

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