- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011 - Franciscan Gardens
I just got a text from my bridesmaid that said “(daughter) will not be at the wedding. I hope (Husband) can go, but if he can’t I’ll bring my friend Erica.”
I immediately felt very weird about this… her husband has a job with a very wonky travel schedule so all along she said if he couldn’t come then she would bring her daughter. I love her daughter! Her friend Erica is someone that I have never met and I feel very strange about her bringing someone that I’ve never met just for the sake of having a plus one.
I feel very guilty about even feeling this way, because I know that some of my other friends have plus ones that I’ve never met… but I also feel like being a bridesmaid puts her in a unique place because she will be off taking photos and doing bridesmaid things while her friend Erica is just sitting there knowing literally NO ONE.
Do any of you have any thoughts about this? Should I say something? Just let it go?