- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I need your help, advice, wisdom, etc PLEASE!!
I have yet to ask any of my friends to be in my bridal party. My fiance and I want 5 BM/GM. . .no we don’t want an uneven bridal party.
Most people have a really hard time narrowing down people but I’m having the opposite problem! I have a lot of friends but I don’t have a lot of REALLY CLOSE friends. . .I’m quite private so I haven’t let a lot of people know me on a deep level. I’m 100% on 3 of my ladies but unsure about 2.
I have 2 friends, let’s call them Abby and Beth, who I really love and cherish. They both know me really well and know me in ways some of my friends don’t. When we connect, we really connect. . .you know, confiding in each other and telling deep dark secrets that kind of thing.
HOWEVER (here’s the however). . .
Abby is NEVER around or available. She is very supportive of me and my wedding but when it comes down to it, she goes into hiding and people don’t hear from her. I’m scared that she won’t pull her weight. Not that she has to do anything for the wedding but it’s to the point where I’m afraid she won’t make it to my wedding on time! She is infamous for being tardy.
Beth is a new stay at home mom and I know she wants more kids. So, there’s a chance she may be pregnant at my wedding. Again, not a big deal but what if she’s close to due date and it would be a burden for her to be in the wedding?
So, if you were me, would you ask Abby and Beth to be in your wedding?