(Closed) Bridesmaid conflict

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Well, if I may ask what specifically are you guys having troubles with?

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Because your wedding is coming up, ordering her dress is pretty important. Have you thought about sending her an email that is fairly short, telling her about the most important things she needs to do for your wedding in the next # of weeks, and then just not mentioning it for a while.

It’s sweet of you to see that you are stressing each other and don’t want to cause any more problems (for either of you).

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Sounds like she really is going through a lot.  That’s still no reason to lash out on you, or to hurt your feelings.  I think I’d stick with email if possible.  She can still be snarky but you won’t have to hear it.  I’d probably say something to her like, “I know you’re going through a lot, is there anything I can do to help?”.  And with regard to the Bridesmaid or Best Man dress, maybe you can ask her to just measure herself then you can order a dress in the size she is?  I’d probably do that, instead of leaving it up to her, she might just simply forget.  I’d also try not to communicate with her but for when absolutely necessary.  Eventually the stress will die down and you guys may be able to get back to normal.  Good luck! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Doesn’t she have her measurements and bridal size from her own dress?  My best friend got married to July, so when I gave them the dress style in Nov, she didn’t bother getting measured and just ordered the size of her wedding gown.  Everything worked fine.  Maybe suggest that as a quick solution for the dress issue?

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