(Closed) Bridesmaid cousin RSVP’d with her 2- (almost 3-) year old….

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

If your FI’s family is getting a sitter, why can’t your cousin get a sitter?  I think treating everyone equally is the way to go.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@peanuthead:

If she is local she may have her own sitter. We may be hiring a sitter and first priority is for Out of Town guests

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Hun you have no control over your cousin. She would have known the rules of the wedding and it is not your problem she could not plan ahead. Hopefully she will find a sitter..maybe help her find a professional one?

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Some people are just rude.  There’s nothing you can do about it.  I would just tell her (kind of like she just told you) that children are not invited to the wedding.  You can’t make an exception for her because that’s not fair to everyone else who is finding a sitter for the evening.

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