Post # 1
I asked my friend who I have been friends with forever to be my Maid/Matron of Honor and My best friend for the past 7 years to be a bridesmaid. Lately it seems my bridesmaid seems to be a little off. She doesn’t talk to me like she use to, she doesn’t want to help me make plans ect. Was I wrong not ask her to be my MOH?
Post # 3
@Imhis1andonly: I wouldn’t say you were wrong, but out of curiosity, why didn’t you choose your best friend?
In her defense, she probably figured it’d be her.
Post # 4
You say that she’s acting differently but have you been acting the same? I think a lot of brides (me included) start focusing on the wedding and thinking about it all the time. This can sometimes push friends away. Why don’t you suggest you two have a fun afternoon together with absolutely no wedding talk?
Post # 5
I still consider my Maid/Matron of Honor one of my best friends just not all the time. We are on and off again friends. We have our moments where we dont talk and can go back like nothing was ever wrong in the first place. It was a hard choice on who should be my MOH in the beginning I thought I had made the right choice, but now I am having some regrets on whether I made the right choice. My Maid/Matron of Honor is involved in the wedding, but not as much as I thought she would have been.
Planning a afternoon together sounds like a great idea! Thank You
Post # 6
Ah…. the bridesmaid vs moh issue…….
I had a similar issue deciding who should be what in my wedding. In the end I made the decision that worked best for me, my Darling Husband and my wedding…..
Over time one of my bridesmaids became more and more difficult to deal with and I was trying for the life of me to figure out why…
After the wedding I decided to ask her about her behavior…. turns out she was pissed at who was selected as Maid/Matron of Honor….
My opinion….. it is the bride and grooms day and they should have the right to choose their bridal party as they wish……..
i would try to have a wedding free day with this girl. After that, if she does not seem to come around I would ask her what is up. You really do not need this girl to become more difficult as the wedding nears…..