(Closed) Bridesmaid demanding to see her gifts before the wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 46
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1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

MrsGatito:  While i do think the bridesmaid is in the wrong, I will say that anything that a bride gives to her wedding party to wear for the wedding (shoes, attire, jewelry, other accessories) is not considered a gift.  

Post # 47
Member
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

MrsWinTraining2014:  How do you know these women?  Are they family?  “Friends”? (I put that in quotes becuase they don’t really seem like that great of friends!). Combination of the two?  I ask only because I know that I would never treat a friend or family member the way that this woman (and from what I’ve read, the other bridesmaids) are treating you.

You say you would be embarrassed to not have a wedding party.  But, think of your wedding day.  Do you really want these women to ruin it for you?  Because, if they’re causing this kind of stress and these kinds of issues, do you think they’re really going to “turn it around” on your wedding day?  Granted that the one girl has a dress.  Honestly, great that your Fiance has a lot of fabulous guy friends.  Nothing to be ashamed about if you only have one person you’re close to standing up for you!  It beats having a bunch of women who don’t give a rat’s patootie about your day ruining it for you. 

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