(Closed) Bridesmaid Dilema

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I don’t think you have to ask her just because she asked you. If you don’t feel that close to her then I wouldn’t ask.

I think a good rule of thumb is, will we still be friends in 10 years? I don’t think you need to worry about keeping sides even at this stage, just focus on having girls you are close to stand up with you.

Post # 4
Bee
12389 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

You have absolutely no obligation to ask her.  If you want to include her in some other way, there are plenty of ways to do that!  Like asking her to throw a shower for you or having her do a reading in your ceremony.

Post # 5
Member
5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i agree – you dont have to ask her just because you were in her wedding party previously. 

Post # 6
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3332 posts
Sugar bee

I agree with the others, you aren’t obligated to ask her just because she asked you.  I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man for two girls who were not in my wedding party, as we aren’t as close as we were when they got married.

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