(Closed) Bridesmaid Dilemma??

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@mh06082013:  

this is a tuffy situation.your bridesmaid is still in shock and emotional and will be for a long time.

i would not want to be in a wedding if i just lost my Fiance who i was suppose to marry a month before your wedding.i would not be able to handle it emotionally and i would love you to approch me and tell me it would be ok to back out.some may not feel this way,but i do as i lost a few family members so i know how i would feel.

you should say that you love her and want to be there for her and that you know she is going through a hard time and you do not exspect her to do anything she is uncomfortable doing.tell her that if being in your wedding is to hard let you know.and  that you understand and will not be upset and to think on it a day or two and let you know how she feels.

my heart breaks for your friend 🙁

Post # 4
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Motor museum

This has been posted 3 times.

Post # 5
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Motor museum

And I repeat my previous comment, don’t ask her. Give her some space. Let her come to you and don’t replace her

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