(Closed) Bridesmaid Dilemma

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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7872 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wilson2Bee:  If I understand it correctly, she (not you) decided she was no longer a bridesmaid (by returning the stuff). Since she resigned of her own accord, I don’t see why you’re obliged to ask her again. 

You can certainly include her in pre wedding events like the bachelorette, though.

As an aside, I don’t think it was a good idea to ask her in the first place. I saw a recent set of photos with the bride’s brother’s ex as a bridesmaid. They were all smiles but I couldn’t help but think it must have been awkward.

Post # 4
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1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Church

Wilson2Bee:  I doubt it. She’ll understand, I am sure. I am also certain that she wouldn’t expect to by BM again. It sounds like she just wants to have a part, but not necessarily as a BM. If she is asking, then don’t worry about it. Uunless you are more worried about it being awkward for you for her to be there.

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