- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
First post on here, and I need some help!
So I get married in less then three months and I have had nothing but bridesmaid drama for the past couple months. I have had 3 bridesmaids and a jr bridesmaid drop out recently do to two of the bridesmaids fighting between each other (one was the moh as well). To say the least it’s been hectic.
Well as I have been finishing plans with my 3 bridesmaids one of them is refusing to do anything or pay for anything either. We are all in college and money is tight for everyone. Me and my fiance are also paying for our wedding ourselves. Me and the girls talked about what they could afford multiple times as I could not afford their dresses hair and makeup. I picked out dress colors and told the girls they could buy whatever dress they liked in that color so they could afford what dress fit their budget. I booked a bigger hotel room for them so they could split the cost at an agreed $70 a night. The makeup and hair was agreed at 120 for both. I’ve checked in with the bridesmaids every month or so to see if that still worked, as there was a 90 clause in the contracts wd signed. One bridesmaid has decided that she no longer woulf like to pay for the hair, make up, and hotel, 87 days before my wedding.
She refuses to call me back or talk to me insisting she just can’t pay for it . But if she doesn’t come to the appointment I’ll still be charged and the other bridesmaids will have to pay each an extra 70 for the hotel.
She claims she has no money yet complaits she works for 16 hours a day over the summer. Her parents are paying for everything for her school and she’s gone on trips this summer and to multiple music festivals.
What should I do about this? The other bridesmaids are angry as they now have to spend more and I don’t have an extra 120 to spend to cover the cost of her appointments. Help!