(Closed) Bridesmaid Dilemma… 4 weeks to go do i dump her?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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270 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

It’s is difficult. It appears you hagrope reaps grown aparyouths you say she has never come to anything in like 5 years, why on earth did you ask her to be BM!?

its not really your concern or business who she spends her time with, however she sounds extremely flaky.

i would meet up with her and explain how you feel. At the end if the day only you can decide if you want to have the your dropped from my wedding convo with her

Post # 4
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8422 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I am completely lost in this story bc I have no clue what a henny is? 

I think you already answered your question when you stated “I’ve already been thinking about where she can stand in pictures to crop her head off”

 Sounds like you are kinda past working it out…. Do you really want to have those feelings on your wedding day? 

Post # 5
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1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

@weddingbound:  Hen’s night – a bachelorette party. OP is from the UK, I’m guessing.

Post # 7
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1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

OP, I recently started a thread about my officiant. Long story short, he was a friend I fired because he was domineering, sarcastic and snappy, and I was tired of dealing with it. It’s been days since I talked to him or his boyfriend, my other friend. My wedding is 8 weeks out, and honestly, it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

The friendship’s obviously been fading and she’s obviously not willing to step up. I know that had I kept my friend as our officiant, I would’ve been angry and resentful the entire time. It’s time to stand up for yourself, or you too will likely feel resentful and upset.

I’d just approach her and tell her that you think being a bridesmaid has been too much on her, and that you would just like to have her as a guest at your wedding. You’ll be so busy on your wedding day you will barely see her if she does come – and after that, you never have to see or talk to her again.

 

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