(Closed) bridesmaid drama

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i wouldn’t necessarily “relieve her of her duties”, but i would sit her down and have an honest conversation with her and give her the opportunity to bow out, explaining that you feel there’s been some distance between you two recently, etc.

also, it took me a long time in my life to realize this, but some times, people just aren’t going to like you. i used to try really hard to “win” these people over, but now i’m at a point where if they don’t want to be friends, i’m not going to try and make them like me.  i’m sure you are an awesome person with other wonderful friends, so you don’t need this negativity in your life.

Post # 4
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206 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

That’s a hard situation because you can’t necessarily de-bridesmaid her, that wouldn’t be right. But at the same time, you want someone standing up with you who supports your marriage. It doesn’t seem like she’s very supportive or positive. If I were you, I’d politely tell her “thanks but no thanks”.

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