- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
Ok so I got engaged a year ago and set my date in February to May 12, 2012. I have 5 bridesmaids and they all have their dresses and are ready to go. A few weeks ago one of the bridesmaids said that her cousin got engaged and told her she was looking at the date of May 12. The bridesmaid explained that she was already in a wedding on that day and the cousin said she would try and work something out…Mind you that this cousin is also in my bridesmaids wedding that is a month after mine. So today my bridesmaid told me that her cousin said the date was definitly May 12. Now she is torn as to whether she should be in mine or her cousins. I tried to very nice and told her that I would understand whatever she chose to do but I feel crushed that she might not be in my wedding. Am I overreacting? I feel like I shouldn’t be upset but it really hurt my feelings.