(Closed) Bridesmaid Drama

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2231 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

This sounds so high school…

Be the bigger person and keep her in the wedding.

Post # 4
3977 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Sounds like spiteful bitch drama on both sides.

Post # 5
35 posts
  • Wedding: June 2013

I had to read this twice but I get it now. 

Either way, keep her in the wedding she will come around and realize that she was being petty.

Best of luck!

Post # 6
2432 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Two of my bridesmaids couldn’t attend my shower due to a scheduling conflict. One of them threw a small shower/bachelorette party for my college friends.

If she says she isn’t coming, say “Okay.” It isn’t the end of the world if a bridesmaid misses the shower.

Post # 7
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Keep her in the wedding party, I don’t understand this fad about dropping people from your wedding party. They’re supposed to be the closest people in the world to you and you’re going to let a petty fight come between that. If you drop her, then you’ve lost her for good….is it really worth losing a best friend over?!

Post # 8
4499 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My advice is not to rank your friends (“2nd best friend,” etc) even in your own head. It’s ugly. 

Post # 9
2701 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@Sminthy:  I don’t get this fad either.

OP, don’t kick her out.  That would be just as spiteful and you’d lose your friend and you’d look like a huge bridezilla.

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