- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
Okay I have 6 special ladies in my wedding. My matron of honor (my very best friend) My maid of honor (my sister) and 4 bridesmaids (my 2nd best friend) (My sister in law) (A really good friend) and (my 3rd best friend). This is the easiest way of explaining it. My 2nd best friend and 3rd best friend are best friends as well. I’ve noticed my 3rd best friend attaining alot of jealousy issues lately. I hang out with them both quite frequently. I was hanging out with them 2 days ago. My Bridal shower is this sunday the 29th. (this is important fact) When we were hanging out my 3rd best friend said she wanted to start drinking. MY second best friend did not. I was not invited to tis outting and still had quite some time to hang out. So instead of ruining best friend #3s evening. I asked #2 since she was not down for leaving yet if she would like to come hang out. In #3’s mind I ditched her. However was she not going to ditch me to go drink?? Anyways not the point. After she said I ditched her, she said I’m going to still be in your wedding but I’m not coming to your bridal shower. I explained I did not ditch her and that I just didn’t invite her that it wasn’t intentional, and she is taking it out on the wedding. I feel she is being spiteful. What should I do if she doesn’t come to shower? Mind you we have been slightly butting heads in secrecy using number 2 as an ear to complain on. I have only been upset because she hasn’t been treating me so great lately. If she doesn’t show, Should I take her out of my wedding??