(Closed) Bridesmaid Drama :(

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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224 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Boo! I’m sorry you’re going through this. it’s a tricky situation for sure. I would just recommend talking to your sister and letting her know how you feel. And if she doesn’t want to do that, or continues to bash your Fiance just tell her “I’m sorry you feel that way, but if you can’t accept the fact that I’m marrying him then maybe you shouldn’t stand up there with me while I do it”

Post # 4
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1350 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

@kcr526:  +1

I would not want people to stand up there with me that didn’t support both me and my SO.  If these women cannot do that for you, then maybe they shouldn’t be part of the wedding.  I know that is a sad thing to think about, but you deserve to have a happy, loving day.  Not deal with the stress and cattiness of these women.

Post # 5
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1572 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m sorry, but I don’t think your older sister should be a Bridesmaid or Best Man if she has that attitude. WHEN things fail, don’t say I didn’t warn you!? REALLY! IMO, it is completely understandable if you ask her to step down, since she quite obviously doesn’t support your relationship, and again, IMO, the people standing up there with you on that day should be ones who have supported you as a couple and your relationship, not tell you they pretty much believe that it is a doomed marriage.

Do you mind telling us WHY they feel the way they do about your FI?

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