- 8 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
This is not my usual username just going incognito incase people I know happen to read this. I don’t even know what to say anymore. My bridesmaids are driving me nuts!!! I have only two bridesmaids but for the most part they refuse to work with each other. My Maid/Matron of Honor does not like my other Bridesmaid or Best Man and has told me numerous times that they only thing she has in common with my other Bridesmaid or Best Man is me. Which is fine, I am a pretty organized person and all my Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man has to do is plan a shower, bacholette party and support me on the day of. That’s it! So we decided to buy our dresses off Netbride.com but the two of them had to organize it because it was going to be cheaper to send two dresses to one address rather then one to each place. Right off the bat my Maid/Matron of Honor was going to fill out the form but my Bridesmaid or Best Man wasn’t around to help so my Bridesmaid or Best Man ended up filling out the form for both of them. Right away my Bridesmaid or Best Man complains about filling out this form so I helped her fill out the form and we sent off the order. So my Maid/Matron of Honor put the whole purchase on her credit card and my Bridesmaid or Best Man had to pay her back which resulted in lots of drama. Bridesmaid or Best Man gave Maid/Matron of Honor a cheque and Maid/Matron of Honor was suppose to deposit cheque on the 1st of the month well for what ever reason the money didn’t get withdrawn for Bridesmaid or Best Man account until the 8th so the cheque bounced. So now the Bridesmaid or Best Man is bitching at me on how my Maid/Matron of Honor didn’t deposit when she said she would and now this dress is costing her just as much as if she had bought it from the store ($30 NSF fee). Meanwhile, I had to take the cheque to my Maid/Matron of Honor because my Bridesmaid or Best Man refuses to drive to my Maid/Matron of Honor house (god only knows why). So the order went to my Maid/Matron of Honor work and they arrived about a month early so she was out of the office that day to pick it up and my Bridesmaid or Best Man starts complaining about how the package will probably go missing and so on. Needless to say the package didn’t go missing. So now my Maid/Matron of Honor had both dresses and once again my Bridesmaid or Best Man doesn’t want to drive to my Maid/Matron of Honor house and pick it up so once again I have to meet up with my Maid/Matron of Honor to get the dress for her. So I finally bring the dress to her today and she proceeds to tell me she is disappointed in how the dress looks. Are you kidding me?!?! I went over with her like 8 times what the fabric was but the dress she tried on had different fabric and I think she thought I looked like that even though I told her it wasn’t going to. We haven’t even gotten to the shower part of it yet and I want to pull my hair out. My Maid/Matron of Honor is definitely the more mature out of the two of them but they are both pretty stubborn. I am glad this will all be over in less then 3 months and then they never have to talk to each other again. When I originally ask them to be my BM’s I never thought in a million years it would get this bad. Thanks for letting me vent :).