(Closed) Bridesmaid Drama

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

Ugh, what a bitch. She is trying to make this whole wedding about her. Why should it concern her that the wedding is ‘all about your FIs family’? What a drama queen.

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 6 months ago by  AHJ.
Post # 3
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4239 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Something deeper is going on here.  She obviously feels like either she isn’t included or she isn’t being heard.  I will say her reactions are really petty and ones that I would expect from early 20’s bridesmaids, but it sounds like you value your friendship with her.  If that is the case, reach out.  No wedding planning, no future in-laws, just you and her.  Ask her what’s going on and what’s up.  Tell her how much she means to you and that you want your best friend to be standing next to you on your wedding day.

It sounds like she feels like she is getting pushed aside.  That probably isn’t what you mean to do, but I wonder if she feels like the odd woman out since you have your sister and your future sisters in law.  Maybe since there are 2 sisters in law she feels outnumbered?  I dunno.  Only she can answer that.  She is being passive aggressive, but if she is your best friend I’m 99.9% sure that there is something going on that you don’t know about.  It’s time to reach out and have a heart-to-heart.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

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AHJ:  Mmmm, that’s going pretty far.  She’s not making this all about her; it sounds like she has genuine concerns that the OP isn’t getting a say in the wedding.  It could be something else too, no one knows but Jay.  She’s the OP’s best friend, there’s something going on here that’s a lot deeper — especially considering there hasn’t been any drama between them previously.

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