(Closed) Bridesmaid Drama… sooo sick of this!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

dont let her stress u out. weddings are stressful enough. tell her that u really need her help and support right now and talk things thru with her, if u have been friends for 12 years then you should be able to find  way to get through to her. if after that she is still pulling away just ignore her and carry on with your plans. If she doenst want to make the effort to be at ur bach party then u shouldnt even want her there, cos then what type of friend is she?

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Oh, wow. Every time I read a thread like this, I think “I’m so glad we didn’t do a bridal party!”. All I can say is, she probably doesn’t realize that your bachelorette means as much to you as it does. To her, it’s just a big night out, so she may not realize that she is hurting your feelings. I’d try and let it go – like the PP said, there are so many things to worry about with weddings, you’ve got to pick your battle or you’ll go insane!

Post # 5
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35 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Girl just ignore her…She knows this is important. Dont even give her the time of day. Carry on with your plans and ignore her..

Post # 6
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am having issues with my best friend who is Maid/Matron of Honor so I completely sympathize.  I think your Bridesmaid or Best Man is going through some issues right now and that’s why she’s pulling away and not showing up to your bachelorette party.  Although I know it’s really upsetting right now, focus on yourself and have fun at your bridal shower and bachelorette party.  Then maybe try to talk to her and figure out what the deal is.  Just remember that you have lots of other friends who are there to support you.

Post # 8
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693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

A friend of 12 years should be open and honest with you!  At this time I would give her benefit of the doubt.  and  I agree with other posts, you have too much on your plate right now to stress over her!

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