(Closed) Bridesmaid DRIVING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2190 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@WhirlyGirl: you’ve had somewhat of a long engagement, so you can’t really expect that someone isn’t going to get married in that time…I don’t think you are being a brat though. Her wedding is closer, so she has a lot to get done in a short amount of time and probably needs support.

When I first started to plan my wedding, I wanted everyone who was close to me to be involved…and then I noticed they all stopped calling or texting me as often and I realized that they really didn’t want to be apart of the wedding as much as I wanted them to. That is okay with me, but maybe you should spend a week or so away from talking to her just so you can cool down.

And your wedding is far after hers so she will have time to focus on yours also. I think it would be a different story if her wedding was two months before yours–I would be upset in that case if I were you.

My best advice is to be as good of a friend to her as you would like her to be to you…and if it continues, talk to her and tell her “hey, I’ve been planning my wedding for a longer period of time and I asked you to be my bridesmaid but it seems like you could care less amount my wedding”


Post # 4
5183 posts
Bee Keeper

@WhirlyGirl: I think you need to breathe and relax. You are not being a brat, you are just annoyed. Maybe stop responding to her texts and she will get the picture? You have to remember that she is as excited about her big day as you are about yours. She just has less time to make it perfect, as we all want our days to be and is prob very stressed out like we all are! Chill out for a sec and take some time for yourself and your wedding then be there for your friend just like you want her there for yours!

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