(Closed) Bridesmaid dropped out

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m sorry! Your going to find that weddings will bring out the worst of things 🙁 

I am going to be a bridesmaid, and be the out-of-state one, and I will admit its difficult. Travel, work time off, not being able to be a part of it is rough. Plus finances! Your friend may have an inhertiance, but maybe its not really that easy?

Anyway, enough rambling. Perhaps you should call her and really have a heart to heart! Its hard to believe such a close friend would be random like that..perhaps she has some bad things going on or its something you guys could work out?

Post # 4
9955 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Agree with @Eva Peron: … call her

As you asked her to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man, one can assume that you guys are close friends, this is the type of conversation that needs to be had one-on-one… and not by email where you can’t pour out your hearts and heart the tone in her voice etc

Hopefully you can work it out

To be quite honest, if she has never been a BM before, she may have accepted the role without really knowing / understanding what it entails (being excited for you) … it is a commitment of time & money, some BMs don’t understand the full extent of that (shoes, dress, accessories, travel, hotels etc)


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