- 5 years ago
Okay, so I know we are to avoid “snarkiness” but I am SO livid, and I don’t want to stress out the bride with it anymore, so I need to vent here.
I am the Maid/Matron of Honor for my best friends wedding. I have three fellow bridesmaids, only one who has helped at all. Now that the shower and stag are over, I don’t care how much they helped. But one bridesmaid, she has been a HORRIBLE friend.Amongst the things she has pulled:
-Ordered her dress too small, on purpose, then expected the bride to pay for it to be taken out (bride paid for the dress)
-Came to the shower late, left two hours early (only stayed 1.5 out of 5 hours)
-Didn’t attend the stag (she had a friends birthday)
-Didn’t come to any bridal party functions (baking party, nails, lingerie party, dress fitting) – I know these things are optional, but she could have tried to attend one. She was offered rides and everything.
-Didn’t attend rehearsal (said she’ll just do whatever the first person does, “it’s just walking”)
-Didn’t confirm that the dress alterations were completed, saying, if it fits, I will be there, if it doesn’t I won’t – This she said TWO DAYS before the wedding
I know the bride regrets her decision for choosing her, but feels that its too late to kick her out.
It is going to take every ounce of self control to be peaceful.