(Closed) Bridesmaid gifts. Is this ok?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
8695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

They are cute gifts. I wouldnt consider their hair and makeup as a gift. It is so they look how you want for your day = not a gift. But the other things are cute if you are sure they will like them.

Post # 4
1181 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Super cute gifts. I would not do black and orange colors together as most people will think of halloween and the girls may feel limited to only using the bags in the fall. Personally I would not carry a black and orange bag around even as a tote after halloween. Maybe do all orange or all black that way it can be more versatile?


Just a little side note: Paying for their hair and make up is technically not a gift to them (yeah they dont have to pay for it, but they wouldnt be having it done in the first place if it wasnt for your wedding). 

Post # 6
3885 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Could you do the totes without the names on them?   Personalized items seem more suited to a young girl than to a grown woman? Also I agree with PP who says the hair and makeup shouldn’t be counted as gifts since they’re for your wedding and not treats for the girls. Of course it’s very generous of you to give them the hair and makeup services, just don’t tally them as gifts.

Post # 7
367 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Squaw Valley

@SparkleBee11:  depending on the person, black & orange could be a good option.  I’m a HUGE Giant’s baseball fan & I would love a black & orange tote.

@jessyrez:  I think the gifts you have in mind are great ideas.  Also offering to pay for the hair makeup is such a nice gesture!  I’ve never had a bride offer to pay for those types of things, but would have totally appreciated it!

Post # 8
113 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Thats a great gift, you definitely put thought into these and thats always appreciated.

Post # 9
388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

I think it’s a great gift!  I know I would love it. It seems very thoughtful.

Post # 11
16196 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I think they are great! I’d love to receive these things, as I’d definitely use them all!

Post # 12
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I like the robe and flip flops, but I would definitely get rid of the tote. I just have no need for totes, especially with my name embroidered on them. But some girls love having their names on everything!

Post # 13
18 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am def one of those girls that loves personalization!! nit usually names but more Monograms!! I say yes to totes!! as a bridesmaid having a bag is nice for the day of!

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