(Closed) Bridesmaid & Groomsmen dilemma

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
1229 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It’s a really sweet idea, but personally, I think your Fiance can honour his brothers without having them walk down an aisle and you don’t need  bridesmaids at all.  

If you’re having an informal wedding, I’d ask your Fiance if his brothers can skip walking down the aisle and just have your daughter as a flower girl.  Your families can all sit together in the front row during the ceremony, the brothers can wear matching suits and boutonnieres and have other wedding duties (readings, ushers, witnesses, toasts, MCing duties, typical groomsmen pictures with their brother).  

Post # 4
1420 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

Bride2be2015:  I love the idea you have! Super sweet!  

You don’t need matching bridesmaids v. groomsmen! πŸ™‚  We have 5 bridesmaids and 3 groomsmen.  No worries!  Your wedding can be whatever you two envision it to be.  

Post # 5
659 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

We are havinv an uneven bridal party, so they will walk down the aisle (alone) and be seated in the front row with our parents

Post # 6
910 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013


Bride2be2015:  have you considered not having a bridal party at all?  Perhaps have your daughter as the flower girl and have everyone else sit in the front row of the ceremony without walking down the aisle.  It would be super sweet and cute to have your daughter stand with you and your Darling Husband without everyone else…….

You can still honor family in pictures without having to have them take part in the ceremony…..


Post # 7
347 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: Davis Island Garden Club

I don’t think it needs to be equal on both sides, but if youre looking for a compromise maybe the brothers can walk down the aisle and be seated in the front row. That way they have the honor of the processional with out the uneven balance at the alter. 

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