- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
I know it’s your wedding but it her hair… so I would just let her style it herself (I wonder, are you offering to pay for a stylist for the girls to get their hair done profesionally). I am natural and even I wouldn’t say no to that. I think if you feel you want a cohesive look, then jst ask her hwat updo she had in mind so you can see if it is what you envisioned also for the wedding. Otherwise it’s just hair and her hair, don’t even stress about that… weddings can be stressful enough without having to worry about what your bm is doing with her own hair. i just let all my bm’s decide what they wanted to do.. id idn’t care but they all wore their hair down.