(Closed) Bridesmaid Inclusion

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
7673 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Wow, that sounds so high school! Don’t these 5 girls have individual identities?

Anyway, I say just let them have their way, and (politely) dump the 3 as BMs. Say, “no hard feelings then. If you feel so strongly about it, you can all come as regular guests. And that way the 5 of you (and your partners) can all sit at the one table. That’s cool”.  You can still get special photos of you with them as a group. e.g. see this thread from today, where the bride posed with her non-BM friends. http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/our-garden-beach-wedding-amazing-day-pic-heavy (post 34).

Post # 4
541 posts
Busy bee

I agree completely with everything @paula1248 said.

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