(Closed) Bridesmaid is not interested…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
40 posts
  • Wedding: November 2010

I wish I had an answer to your question, I am struggling with the same thing.  I have one that tells me that she wants to help, but then when I call her up just to talk she never answers or returns my calls.  The fact that she updates facebook constantly yet ignores me kind of bothers me.

Post # 4
552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would ask her.  My cousin doesn’t seem that “into” being a bm either.  But oh well.

Post # 5
175 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Can another one of the bridesmaids check in with her?  Maybe she has some reservations about being in the wedding, but she might be more comfortable talking to someone other than you about it. 

Post # 6
51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree, try and talk to her because it doesn’t sound like she is at all willing to be involved. Geeze I thought I was the only one with Bridesmaid or Best Man issues 🙁 

Post # 7
1020 posts
Bumble bee

i’m sorry you have to deal with this when you should be enjoying the process. what i learn from my own situations is NOT to expect too much from the bridesmaids, that way, you won’t feel disappointed.

Post # 8
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I would be up front with her and ask if she still has time/wants to be apart of the wedding and go from there.  Be nice about it though, don’t say that if she isn’t interested in planning then she can’t be a part of the bridal party – the fact is no one will be as excited as you about your wedding and not everyone likes planning.  But I would definitely find a way to talk to her about it.

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