Post # 1
So i’m getting married march 17th, 2012. I asked a really good friend (at the time) to be a bridesmaid. She recently got married and moved 3 hours a way. Her and I hardly speak to each other now and when she does come to town she never lets me know so we can meet up. I’m still including her in everything to do with the wedding (picking out dresses, flowers, and letting her know about the bach party). I don’t know if I should ask her if she even wants to be in the wedding anymore or just see what happens. Any advise would be great!
Post # 3
I would ask her and give her the option to opt out. Be honest, and let her know how she is making you feel and that it seems like she isnt interested anymore. Just because she lives far away now doesnt mean she cant make an effort to participate in everything. Maybe she feels its just too much work being so far away so maybe she will tell you the truth and decide to opt out. I would approach it as nice as you can first and tell her youd understand if its just too much and if it is you’ll understand but you would appreciate if she told you.
Post # 4
@ajohnson5676: Ask her if she is willing to still be apart.