Post # 1
As i was thinking a few days ago how all my bridesmaids responded to my invite to be a bridesmaid in my wedding. All of them responded yes without a heart beat & was totally excited. When i asked one of my now bridesmaid to be a bridesmaid in the wedding she asked me 2 times if i really wanted her in there. & to me what im getting is that she’s just in it just cause i wanted her in there but she really doesnt what to but shes not telling me tho. So has this ever happened to u & how did u handle it?
Don’t u think that -thats odd how she responded vs how all the other BMs responded????
Post # 3
One of my BM’s was worried about money- having to buy a dress & shoes, and hair, makeup etc. I told her that I would get everyone’s budget before dress shopping, and keep the dresses under the lowest budget. I am also not making anyone buy anything else, they can wear shoes they already have, and I’m not asking them to get professional hair or make up. Maybe she is just worried about cost? I’d sit down with her and talk- be her friend and make sure she isn’t having any personal trouble 🙂
Post # 4
Maybe she is having self esteem issues and is suprised you want her there. Has she put on weight, lost her job, had any big things happen that she might feel down about?