- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I do not think you are a bad friend for not wanting her in the wedding. You already have you Bridal Party chosen, and that is that.
You are not a great friend for judging her so much. She is loud, she embarrases you, she will ruin your image, she gets on your nerves for wanting to spend time with you??? Do you even like her? You can’t have it both ways, either you appreciate your differences or you don’t. Either way, I’d never want any friend of mine to feel about me the way you seem to feel about her.
ETA: I just read your updates, and that sheds a bit more light on your relationship. My advice would be to talk to her. If you really feel as though your job and image on said job can be in danger, then you should let her know. If she is a good friend, then she will not want to put your job in danger in any way. A good friend helps to build someone up, not tear here down. If you want this friendship to contnue to last you need to have a heart to heart. Also, letting her pass out the programs sounds like a nice compromise.